May be the loneliness is not that bad.
If loving just for the loneliness ease then that is the loneliest love.
Struggle to be something in someone's eyes is never a successful task.
When you try to make you “Identical” now you already lose yourself. The self uniqueness is come from within, not from your look, and only people that know you can tell that you are unique.
The uniqueness has its own cost, how much cost that you willing to pay?
Because in the end, who has the hard time with it always you.