i made commitment to myself that i will do 2 things for all things past in my life.
first “learn all lesson for my own failure”
second “remember that it’s always plenty room to grow”
recently, i back to re watched very old movies; the faved ones of all time for me; ground hog day, cast away, and bicentennial man.
i just feel some lesson want to share, cause i feel some that should be write to remind myself.
for this blog i will only say about ground hog day.
“ground hog day” is the day that mostly reminded the celebration of spring time on 2 feb.
why ground hog?
you should find that on google, my blog is not concerned of that at all.
ground hog day (movie) tell about phil connors, the weather forecaster, that has to work on that ground hog day.
at first, 2feb phil wake up and go to do his job, unwillingly, unattended and try to just finished.
he just try to get back to town, but stuck by the blizzard then back to the old out town and rest for another night.
but then when he woke up it’s back to 2feb every time at 6.00am.
like continuously loop happened repeated; he tried all from take advantage of knowledge of others, kill himself by all the ways meant. get rich by information. play god with others.
but in the end, he found that whatever he tried cannot make he won heart of “Rita” the girl of his dream.
until one day loop, he tried to make rita believed him about the infinite day loop for this, but in the end of that day, rita try to make him found the different way of living, living by knowing how to growth in every kind of thought.
after a time passed (in his thought) he tried to help others, learn more skill about french, ice sculpt, piano, wheel jack. and try every way to help people in need.
some good, some fail, but for time passed he continued improve. and in the end; he win rita heart.
what i learn?
i try to figure out all the lesson hereby.
1. you can always have many solution for some problems; but best way should be the constructive way.
2. it’s not what the chance comes overnight, no one change all in one night most all comes by preparation.
3. if ones, the person, thing, duty or something really meant to you, do it with caution, because if not you will regret.
4. we cannot change others view for us, what we can only think about others as respectful as own self.
5. hatred bring nowhere.
6. if you love someone bring your best to them, mostly if you cannot someone that can do better than you will do it instead.
and for the end i love this very lovely what he said
“When Chekhov saw the long winter, he saw a winter bleak and dark and bereft of hope. Yet we know that winter is just another step in the cycle of life. But standing here among the people of Punxsutawney and basking in the warmth of their hearths and hearts, I couldn’t imagine a better fate than a long and lustrous winter. “